Wednesday, June 9, 2010
I love cuddling with my kids, doesn't matter to me which one it is, either will do just fine by me. I know the days are limited when my little ones will want to be held in my arms, so I try to remind myself to enjoy this too brief period of time while I can. Some days it's hard to remember with that pile of laundry to do, furniture to dust, projects to finish, etc.
Lil' Miss is the far more cuddly of the two, willing to lie with myself or Mister Vonkysmeed for long stretches at a time (especially in her 'nest' between our legs and the back of the couch when we are stretched out in full relaxation mode). She was always like this though, even as little baby she was perfectly happy to snuggle in with her favorite people, especially when a book was involved!
On the other hand, Destructo-Boy is not quite so willing. Oh, he enjoys coming up and placing his head on a knee, arm, hand, whatever he can get to in order to show his affection (what's up with that? is he part tomcat?!) but he is a little mover and shaker never staying still for very long. No sooner will he climb up on my lap then he wriggles off to go race away and get into something that he probably isn't supposed to be into.
Which makes it all the more bittersweet with him being sick this past weekend. When he gets sick his preferences change entirely, wanting to be cuddled by someone all the time. He is rather particular on who that someone is too, if you are the chosen person forget about it if you are trying to knit or read or anything besides holding him! Destructo will stand at your knee and cry pitifully (and there is nothing quite as pitiful as a tow-headed 20 month old with a fever) until you put down your distraction and snuggle him. Both Mister Vonkysmeed and I have commented to each other during his illness that we missed being able to cuddle him as we used to (when he wasn't mobile and couldn't escape from us). Although I'm not happy that he's sick, I will admit to relishing being able to cuddle our beloved little boy. Gotta grab those opportunities while you can, for all too soon they will be gone.